Control circle

There are several types of control circles. This one focuses on you as person and I find that useful. This is about how I meet the world and how I let it come to me.

The ones in what “I can control” goes hand in hand. For instance how I speak connects to how I respond to others behaviours. If I am judging other peoples behaviours the way I speak to them or about them will be affected in a negative way.

The other control circle I know of is with three rings. The inner most is about what you can control or do something about. For instance your role and job at work, that would be something could control. The middle ring is about things you can influence, but not necessarily any control over the outcome. Could be an election or giving your feedback to a person on his performance. The outer most circle is about things you cannot control like the weather or other people actions.

Both are valuable in terms of gaining some kind of control in this chaotic world we live in.

Note: I can’t find the source of the image I borrowed.